THE ART OF BEING A FEMININE WOMAN: WHAT IS FEMININE ENERGY
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Roxanne
from California asked me:
“Aleda,
I have been meaning to ask what it really means to be feminine and strong?”
First
of all, what is exactly a feminine woman?
If
you ask me this question two years ago, I would have definitely answered that a
feminine woman is the kind of woman who wears high heels and tons of makeup.
The one with long flowy hair and does all the girly stuff.
Little
that I knew that being feminine isn’t so much about how a woman looks, but,
rather, it lies in her energy.
Energy?
Yes. The balance between the masculine vs feminine (all men and women have both energies).
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I used to dress like a boy since I was 11. I really hated being a girl.
Three
years later, I was surprised when friends still told me that I was a very
‘soft’ tomboy.
Only
now I understand that being feminine is already in my core. It has been my dominant energy from the start.
I have always vibrated feminine energy, unknowingly.
What is actually the meaning of a woman with feminine energy?
It
lies in the how a woman carries herself.
She
does not initiate, but she lovingly welcomes nice gestures.
I
am not an expert in terms of feminine energy, but I know the kind of feminine
woman that I aspire to be.
Her traits as a feminine woman include being soft, calm, accepting, laid back, and loving...
How
to become a strong feminine woman? It is an art, but here are a few tips:
FEMININE ENERGY TRAITS #1: LOVING HERSELF FIRST
She
is full of love, yet, she isn’t a doormat. She is the kind of woman to fill her
cup first before her love could overflow to others.
In other words, she makes
sure that all her needs are well taken care of first before she could allow herself
to nurture others.
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FEMININE ENERGY TRAITS #2: SPEAKING LESS AND LISTENING MORE
There
is power in silence. Her voice is valuable.
Her strength lies in her
actions.
She believes in the concept of luring with honey, where compliments
and appreciations are used for all good action and behaviour to encourage more
of them.
For example, when she loves something that her man does for her, she
makes sure that he knows how she appreciates his efforts.
She does this by thanking him and
making him feel like a hero (without over doing it, of course).
This will make
him want to do more for her.
On the other hand, when she dislikes some of his
actions or behavior, she withdraws. In this case,
"Actions
are stronger than words" - Unknown
Other
than being mysteriously sexy, a woman who listens more with the intention to
understand the other person instead of waiting to respond, gains more knowledge
and information.
And the person who has the most information is the deadliest
and the most feared in the room.
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FEMININE ENERGY TRAITS #3: BEING SOFT SPOKEN BUT FIRM
A
woman who speaks softly despite the noise around her is a quietly confident
woman.
Others have to lean forward just to hear her. That is powerful and sexy,
in a way.
On the contrary, a woman who has to raise her voice (or even worse,
has to yell), just to get her message across, has already lost her power.
A
strong feminine woman would never yell to anyone.
FEMININE ENERGY TRAITS #4: DELAYING HER REACTION TOWARDS ANGER
A
strong feminine woman is the most patient.
She knows that anger is also one of
many other human emotions.
However, what makes her different from other women
is that she takes time to process her feelings.
She is able to face difficult
situations calmly, without reacting, especially negatively.
She only speaks or
acts once her anger subsides.
This is how a woman makes herself strong
emotionally.
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FEMININE ENERGY TRAITS #5: BEING DRAMA FREE
A
strong feminine woman is able to detach herself from unpleasant situations,
without any drama.
She doesn’t need to use words but, rather, her silence to
show her disapproval of inappropriate behaviour of others.
If she is too
overwhelmed by certain situations, she chooses to take care of herself
unapologetically.
She is well aware that, in order to be able to care for
others around her, she needs to make sure that she takes care of herself first.
FEMININE ENERGY TRAITS #6: BEING RESILIENT
When
she always appears calm despite all her emotions, she embodies the ultimate
character of a strong feminine woman.
This does not mean that she is a
hypocrite.
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She decides that her emotions are hers alone and she takes responsibility in handling them herself behind closed doors.
She does not need
to parade her sadness or other negative emotions in front of other people.
She
does share her feelings with closed ones every now and then; however, she does
not dramatize her situations.
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