5 WAYS TO CONNECT EMOTIONALLY WITH A MAN


How to connect emotionally with a man
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It is never about looks. Looks may attract his attention, but what makes him stay in the long run is the energy that a woman sends out. 

In this case, it is her feminine energy. 

She is confident and secure in her own skin. She does not need to chase a man. All she does is become loving, welcoming, relaxed and laid back when she is with him. 

Other than that, what makes her different from other women out there is that:

#1 SHE CREATES A SAFE PLACE FOR HIM TO BE VULNERABLE

A feminine woman creates a safe place for her man to be vulnerable with her. This provides space for him to share his deepest fears and wildest dreams. She does this by not being judgmental towards his lack and weaknesses. 

She is always supportive of his dreams and ambitions. She gives him support and encouragement when the whole world is against him. When he fails, she tells him that it is okay and encourages him to keep going.


#2 SHE IS THE OASIS FROM THE DESERT STORM

She is the oasis for him to take shelter from the desert storm. In other words, she is his sanctuary, where he can retreat from his masculine world e.g. his career and other responsibilities. 

She welcomes him home with her feminine energy, such as a loving smile and a listening ear. 

Every man needs feminine energy that he can come home to at the end of the day. 

Nagging and complaining are examples of masculine energy that he does not need from his woman, which may result in power struggles (masculine vs. masculine) and loss of polarity. 

A feminine woman knows better than to compete with her man.


Feminine energy in relationships


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#3 SHE TRUSTS HIM

A feminine woman provides her man the trust that he needs. She is secure and confident, thus, she does not need to call him every five minutes to know his whereabouts. She just trusts him. If he breaks that trust, it is his problem, not hers.

#4 SHE ACCEPTS HIM FOR WHO HE IS


Acceptance from his own woman is important for a man. A feminine woman understands her man really well.

His struggles and flaws.

Therefore, she knows how to make him feel safe, to be his imperfect self while encouranging him to be the best version of himself.

She knows better to lure him with honey (positive and encouraging words and actions), instead of vinegar (complains and criticism).


#5 SHE TRUSTS HIS LEADERSHIP

A feminine woman who loves herself trusts the leadership of her man. She lets him decide what is best for their relationship. 

She shows her trust towards him (by both her words and actions) that she understands that he is trying his best to be the ideal man for her and the relationship or marriage. 

Therefore, she never tries to nag at him. She lets him set the pace of the relationship.

A feminine woman who has deep self-love does not only has looks to kill for (she knows how to take care of herself), but she also knows how to communicate with her man. 


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This makes her a rare jewel that no masculine / alpha man wants to let go of. He can't help but to fall in love with her. She is very easy to have a relationship with because works with him as a team. 

Together, they become a power couple.

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