5 WAYS TO CONNECT EMOTIONALLY WITH A MAN
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It is never
about looks. Looks may attract his attention, but what makes him stay in the
long run is the energy that a woman sends out. In this case, it is her feminine
energy. She is confident and secure in her own skin. She does not need to chase
a man. All she does is become loving, welcoming, relaxed and laid back when she
is with him. Other than that, what makes her different from other women out
there is that:
#1 SHE CREATES A SAFE PLACE FOR HIM TO BE VULNERABLE
A feminine woman creates a safe place for her man to be
vulnerable with her. This provides space for him to share his deepest fears and
wildest dreams. She does this by not being judgmental towards his lack and
weaknesses. She is always supportive of his dreams and ambitions. She gives him
support and encouragement when the whole world is against him. When he fails,
she tells him that it is okay and encourages him to keep going.
#2 SHE IS THE OASIS FROM THE DESERT STORM
She is the
oasis for him to take shelter from the desert storm. In other words, she is his
sanctuary, where he can retreat from his masculine world e.g. his career and
other responsibilities. She welcomes him home with her feminine energy, such as
a loving smile and a listening ear.
Every man needs feminine energy that he can
come home to at the end of the day. Nagging and complaining are examples of
masculine energy that he does not need from his woman, which may result in
power struggles (masculine vs. masculine) and loss of polarity. A Feminine Warrior knows better than to compete with her man.
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#3 SHE TRUSTS HIM
A Feminine Warrior provides her man the trust
that he needs. She is secure and confident, thus, she does not need
to call him every five minutes to know his whereabouts. She just trusts him. If
he breaks that trust, it is his problem, not hers.
#4 SHE ACCEPTS HIM FOR WHO HE IS
Acceptance from his own woman is important for a man. A woman of a different kind of beauty understands her man really well. His struggles and flaws. Therefore, she knows how to make him feel safe to be his imperfect self while encouraging him to be the best version of himself.
She only uses positive words instead of negative. She knows better to lure him with honey (positive and encouraging words and actions) instead of vinegar (complains and criticisms).
#5 SHE TRUSTS HIS LEADERSHIP
A feminine warrior who loves herself trusts the leadership of her man. She lets him decide what is best for their relationship. She shows her trust towards him (by both her words and actions) that she understands that he is trying his best to be the ideal man for her and the relationship or marriage. Therefore, she never tries to nag at him. She lets him set the pace of the relationship.
A feminine woman who has deep self-love does not only has looks to kill for (she knows how to take care of herself), but she also knows how to communicate with her man. This makes her a rare jewel that no masculine/alpha man wants to let go of. He can't help but to fall in love with her. She is very easy to have a relationship with because works with him as a team. Together, they become a power couple.
A feminine woman who has deep self-love does not only has looks to kill for (she knows how to take care of herself), but she also knows how to communicate with her man. This makes her a rare jewel that no masculine/alpha man wants to let go of. He can't help but to fall in love with her. She is very easy to have a relationship with because works with him as a team. Together, they become a power couple.
Hope it helps,
Aleda
Article edited on 17th February 2019.
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